Why can't I Get
The one dreaded question that
we won't want to be in the position to ask - Why Cant I Get Pregnant.
To answer that question, the foremost factor you have to consider is the time you
have spent trying to get pregnant. Most couples get pregnant within 6 month of trying. A good time frame to
give yourself and to your partner before going to a doctor is to give it a try for at least a year.
Sometimes, the reason why you can't get pregnant can be as simple as because you are
not having enough sex or you could be doing it at the wrong time! Sperm typically lives up to five days so instead
of cramming sex into the day you think you are ovulating, you can try doing it probably 3 times a week. Having
sex regularly would increase the sperm count (thou having sex everyday would
decrease it). Which is why we recommend doing it 3 times a week with 2 days of rest in between.
Misconception on sexual
I have heard of couples stopped having sex till the women is in her more fertile
period in hope of saving up more sperm. This is definitely not true and will not be the right answer to your
question of "why i cant get pregnant". Studies have shown that instead of increasing the chances of
conception, it may actually decrease it.
1. the total concentration of sperm and volume may increase but the % of normal sperm
and motile sperm decreases due to infrequent ejaculation
2. You may just miss the timing.
The female egg will survive only for a day or two.
Let things be
If i am to be asked, the best advice i can give about trying to conceive is to let
things be natural. The thing about sex is it was created to be enjoyed. Sex should never be something that stress
you out. It is important to take things naturally. By doing so, you would also increase your chance of getting and
Some researchers believe that having an orgasm would increase your probability of
getting pregnant. This is because the spasmic movement when you get an orgasm would help pull the sperm up the
Lisa Olson - Pregnancy Miracle: Holistic system for getting pregnant and having healthy
Last but not least, Don't Smoke, Drink or Consume Drugs. These would definitely
affect your fertility. Hope the above gives an insight to you on your question of "why cant i get
You may be asking, how can i get a better orgasm so as to increase my chances of concieving?
One way to do so would be to strengthen your PC muscle. Below is an E-book which could be helpful not only prior to
pregnancy but even after pregnancy when you may feel that your vagina has loosen.
More info - The vagina bible