Nvsa49969,friend, the behaviors that we acquire during the childhood are wonderful because they remain with us and they wake up when we are mature if they provide us pleasure.
If these memories used them in our married life
it would be the flavor that we need to break the routine. We live them as children again, being mature...
In your case, you would feel a lot of sexual pleasure if your couple gave you an enema as if a boy that doesn't want were and he would have to thrash you so that you accept it. Sure, you would reach a multiorgasmo. Your memories would appear and you would live them intensely...
For it, the couples should communicate their memories, to speak of their childhood, there the key of the happiness is. An alone couple needs love and respect, a space and very creative being.