Are you madly in love with your guy/girl friend? Want to know how to make him/her start to feel the same way? You've come to the right place!
1If you don't know him/her very well then find out some more general info...Ad
2Try behaving in a different manner, so that he/she sees you in a different way, as more of a romantic interest than a friend.
3Look at him/her often, quickly glance or when he/she catches your gaze hold eye contact for a bit longer than usual...it drives them insane! (in a good way)
4Ask to hang out or go somewhere sometime, be casual so that you don't appear desperate, and when/if you do go out somewhere, act more like friends, be yourself so he/she sees how much fun being with you is! Then the next time you go somewhere with them,they will probably be more used to the idea of you being with them so try to act a little differently, treat them a bit more like a date than a friend to see their reaction...
5If you have his/her number try calling them for something such as homework help or 'just to say hi'.
6If you don't already have their number then ask them for it, this will give them the impression that you like them.
7Subtle behavioural differences such as blushing if they look at you (more of a girl thing but it can be cute in guys), looking from their lips to their eyes or deep in their eyes while you talk, batting your eyelids (girl), mimicking their posture, casually touching them etc.
8If you're close with him/her, hint that you like them or straight out tell them. Most of the time they will feel the same way, even if they don't want to admit it because some people are afraid of losing a great friendship. But most of the time a great friendship is a great relationship. It's just the transition between the two and the fear of losing the friendship that usually gets in the way.Ad
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- Note that most relationships start out as friends
- Just be casual and subtle, because if you all of a sudden change your behaviour you may freak them out, they like you for you so don't be someone else.
- THE CLOCK TEST: If you feel like he or she's been watching you, while in class, suddenly look at the clock then quickly look at him/her. If they're looking at the clock then it's because they were watching you and following your eyes is a natural reflex to a sudden change of movement.
- Compliment him/her often. For things you actually like, the reasons why you like being his/her friend.
- Maybe suggest going out some time to see his/her reaction...
- Remember to actually talk to them, though even if they deny liking you they may be shy...actions speak louder then words so watch their body language.
- Don't show off in front of them and try asking them to help you with things like homework or fixing something etc.
- Make sure he/she doesn't already have a boy/girlfriend!
- Keep your behavioural changes small and subtle
- Don't STARE at him/her too often, it'll freak them out and probably ruin your chance at a relationship...although it sure lets them know you like them!
- Don't suddenly become obsessive
- You can't make someone feel something that they don't...
- Don't come on too strong
- Remember that a lot of people are afraid of losing a good friendship, take things slow, and if he/she is still not liking the idea of a relationship, maybe it's best to remain friends...at least for now...
Things You'll Need
- An open mind
- To have feelings for that person
- To look nice and presentable.
- To talk to him/her and be close friends
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