When someone at home was a guest, his child was sitting on a stool, watching cartoons while being naughty, and accidentally fell off the stool, and then cried. At this time, many parents will feel very angry, so they reprimand their children:  Watching a cartoon is naughty, I fell, and you still have a face to cry? From a psychological point of view, this kind of criticism is probably just that the parents are venting their inner anger, and the educational significance of the child is minimal or even counterproductive: falling down 'S child is in sorrow, unable to grasp the deep meaning behind the parents' criticism, and can only hear the parents' scolding, so they may cry harder. At this time, if there are other children next to seeing this scene, they will only get It came to the conclusion that you can't cry if you fall, or you will be scolded by adults. In fact, the attitude and way parents treat their children are related to the children's mental health, and public criticism of children will affect the formation and development of children's self-esteem. Blindly beaten Scolding and scolding will not only make the child feel humiliated in front of outsiders, but also make the child form a negative thinking that something bad happens to you deserve it.
The core point of this passage is that when parents are educating their children, if they are angry inside, the education is of little significance.