I have this
crush on a guy and there's only one problem: He has a girlfriend. I
don't know why he even likes her. She used to make fun of me, she
flirts with other guys a lot, and a lot of people don't like her
because she is so mean. Why do such great guys go for girls who
aren't very nice people?
“Because girls often act differently
around guys then they would around other girls” says Dylan, 15,
“they don’t like the thought of other girls being around their
Girls often act differently around guys that they like than girls
because they see them as a threat. Towards a guy, a girl will act
nice and cheerful because she wants to seem like a kind person and
someone that a boy would like. But girls can be mean to each other
because they see them as potentially stealing their guy crush.
Don’t stoop to her level and be just as mean. Take the higher road
and be kind to all! If you are nice to everyone around you, including
the girls, you will make a positive impression on the guy you like
and let him see you for who you really are, and maybe change his
mind. If not, you'll find a guy who prefers sweet over sour.