Q: Why does my husband want such specifics about holiday gifts? He requires a list with URL links to exact products, or else he's annoyed with me. Seems so unromantic and uninspired to me. What's this all about?
A: It's because he's lame and trying to cheat the system. Don't let him. Tell him to suck it and fly blind like the rest of us. Explain to him that even if he's totally wrong with his choice and he ends up getting you a hand puppet and a pair of dice then you'll both learn a lot about each other, and that is really what gift giving is all about.