My question is: How does this come into play during an A? I mean, it doesn't sound like these men have full blown ED. Is this some SA's do to enhance sex, or something people to do assist in getting it up when they might otherwise have trouble due to guilt.
I've read that ED meds can be a clue (in conjunction with other clues I guess), but Im just wondering what their use is for, assuming the user doesn't have complete ED.
Then OW took him out for a drink after work one night and they kissed in the parking lot afterwards. He got very hard, unmedicated. They started kissing and canoodling in the office after work, after everyone else had gone home. A month later, they were having sex.
But he soon started to lose it with her as well and always took Viagra to their trysts so he could perform. He was beginning to feel guilty, and then too, the high from the fantasy was beginning to wear off.
And yes, the diminishing supply of Viagra was a major clue.
D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA
For someone who is 40-45 for example, they may not even realize they aren't what they used to be, so the Cialis then makes them feel like Superman. They may think they're at 125%, when really they've just returned to 100%. For someone who has full normal function, Cialis or Viagra should have no real effect other than perhaps shortening recovery time.
me - husband A46
her - wife A42
Married 17 years
D-Day August 2, 2009
3 kids 11, 13, and 15