By Chris Alvarez
What is a sponsor?
A sponsor isn’t a friend. A sponsor isn’t a therapist. A sponsor isn’t a parent. A sponsor is something more. A sponsor is someone who has something you want. They help those who desire sobriety regain a life worth living by taking them through the twelve steps.
Well… that’s what they are supposed to do but most of the time they end up doing a lot more.
Although a sponsor is supposed to be a guide and help keep their sponsees on a path of sobriety, the sponsee ends up helping the sponsor more than they will ever know. It’s been my experience that when I let someone help me, it also helps them.
A sponsor ends up becoming so close to their sponsees that secrets cease to exist. They make their sponsees do things that they don’t want to do, they take sponsees out of their comfort zones and help them overcome their fears.
Ultimately all I can surely say is that my sponsor has helped make me the person I am today; and by sponsoring someone else I learn how to stay sober, or as Peter F. Drucker said, “No one learns as much about a subject as one who is forced to teach it.”