you like to be abused
Yes, but it will never be the same. Just like spilled milk, or broken pot, it can not be repaired right anymore.
the question is is there something to forgive? Just because we're hurting, doesn't always mean someone did something wrong, many times some actions might hurt us but nobody is doing anything wrong. <br />
Another thing.. even if she is doing something wrong, if she doesn't see it that way or doesn't intend to stop, no point in forgiving her.<br />
So 1st of all, what is she doing that's hurting, does she know her actions hurt you, does she also think she's in the wrong and is she willing/able to stop them?<br />