You want a guy who is tall, successful, charismatic, worldly, independent, and sexy. You’ve dated him before. He’s broken your heart, time and again. Why do you always go back for more? Because you can’t help yourself. You’re on the most common drug known to mankind – lust.
You’d best kick the habit if you want to find a healthy relationship with long-term partner. (and, before the comments start – I don’t mean you SHOULDN’T have chemistry; I mean that you shouldn’t let chemistry blind you to the fact that you’re being treated like crap!)