These questions go out to all you BTDT mommas who have had previous NUCBs. I'm a FTM aiming for a NUCB. I am just curious as to what the most painful part of your NUCB experience was? Was it the contractions? Was it when you were pushing and the baby was exiting your body and you felt that 'ring of fire'? Was it when (and if) you tore? Was it when (and if) you had an episiotomy? What was the worst part of it all? What, if anything, would you do differently the next time around?
Also, I'm currently 33 weeks and 5 days and just had my first vaginal exam where they checked my cervix (had to go to L&D tonight). Just wondering how the pain of a vaginal and cervix check compares to that of the pain during labor and delivery?