One thinks in terms of first force fetch, then walking fetch, then force to pile, on and on.
The other may follow those steps listed above but is not thinking in those terms/steps. Rather, they have a let's gradually mold and form mentality.
One thinks they know and gives lots of advice and one knows they don't know and wait to be asked first before giving advice.
One can bake the other can cook.
One is irrational the other rational.