Re: what is going on? im really confused. does he wanna break up? advice please.
I think you're in a relationship where neither of you want commitment to the other - but you want the benefits and options of involvement with each other, when the moood hits or time is right.
But if either of you wanted someone in your life on a regular basis that you had to consider equally with yourself - you two wouldn't be dating at all.
It's unrealistic for him to drop his plans, because you find yourself free. That is why you two mesh - you two both have things to do, people to see, and things that interest you as individuals. When the time is right for you both - you get together, but when it's not right neither of you are bored, clingy, etc.
Last edited by ICFK1; 08-15-2008 at 10:51 AM.