Your defiance of looking at things from a neutral angle is more disturbing than frustrating. You cannot seem to accept that had there been no occupation, there would be no resistance.
You probably even think that the shooting of Mustafa Tamimi, a Palestinian protester, in the head was right because he was Palestinians, living on Palestinian soil and speaking against the illegal occupation of Palestine.
They who shot him came to him on his land. He didn't come to them.
That one example is epitome to the whole conflict that is going on.
The Powerful vs. Powerless
I suppose it is fun to defend the Powerful since they are, as you said, "winning" which you have yet to tell me what you mean by that. If their purpose was to find peace then they're not getting it and they are certainly not pursuing it. So what is the purpose of Israel's actions?