Or maybe not...things have change around here.
If you want PG13 why are you here?So one can post pictures of oneself with the mouth open, top off..bare assed rolling around on the bed...can't do that on Match.com! But that doesn't mean it's not going to STILL take a decent introductory email to get past the picture. Just 'cause you get a pizza sample in the store doesn't mean you no longer have to pay for a whole pizza!
That said, I can see why you see a contradiction.