Hey, my child is 21 months old and an extreemly acrobatic nurser. She also needs to have boh nipples so she can play with one in her hand while she nurses. She will sometimes refuse to nurse without it. She also latches on herself (which is painful) and switches sides very frequently. A lot of things I try (simply refusing the other breast is one) just make us both very frustrated and makes nursing a chore instead of fun! So my question is this... How can i get control back form my toddler without making it a fight? thanx in advance!