Which relay is it that is clicking? I'm not great at electrical but it sounds to me like you've got another circuit bleeding over and starting to trigger the relay. And it sounds like the other circuit is something like the door light circuit which is closing when the door opens and the door switches close the ground. If I were you I'd get myself a factory service manual for your year and check the wiring diagrams to see if those circuits share anything in common.
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