Talk Is Cheap, Actions Are Everything
back up your wordsThe real men out there are usually the ones that don't talk as much. They give their opinion when necessary or when asked. They don't mince words because time is money. Words can be a weapon to men of power but only if they are backed up by action.
I've heard tons of guys make threats to break someone's legs if... yet they did nothing and never backed up their words. The result was that everyone knew the guy was full of crap and no one ever took him seriously again.
The bottom line is that in order to be taken seriously, you should never say something if you can't back it up. If you say that you will break someone's legs then do it, or send someone to do it, but make sure it gets done. This way you're sending an effective message. If they don't get the message, there are plenty of other body parts you can break.
Also, don't get hot under the collar if someone doesn't take you seriously. After spending three months in the hospital and six months learning how to walk again with their new kneecaps, they (and all their cronies) will take you very seriously. Don't worry about it; some people need to learn the hard way.
look at the donJust make sure to back up your words. Keep in mind that there is no need to make speeches. Make your point clear so that it's understood. If others don't understand, then it's time to take action. This reminds me of a great example from Mario Puzo's classic book, The Godfather.
The godfather, Don Corleone, has been having problems with a young mafioso who is not following the "rules." After repeated warnings and non-compliance, the godfather summons the young hood to a sit-down with him and his consigliere .
After three hours of talking and no progress because the kid has a hard head, the old Don quietly throws his hands in the air and says something like, "I give up. I can't reason with this kid." He then walks out of the room. Seeing this, the young punk feels the blood drain from his face, as he turns white with fear.
Why was he so afraid?