I'm well aware of the facts. I never said the blame lay solely at his door did I?
Calculating on both sides I'm afraid. Neither gave much thought about the price to be paid by the children. Deliberately creating such a situation was dysfunctional and unhealthy, whoever played a part in it.
There is nothing dysfunctional about a single parent bringing up children. It wasn't like they never had a female presence in their lives because they had the nanny Gracy Rwaramba who they were apparently very close to. And by all acounts the kids seem very down to earth and grounded when they have been interviewed.