So, this weekend you’ll forgive me for indulging in a little mindless reality TV. Since there are two members of the cast from Colorado, I’ve been popping in from time to time to catch an episode of MTV’s Real World: Washington D.C. online. In viewing the penultimate (don’t tell me how it ends, lemme guess…they each go home?) episode, I was taken aback by how the gay character, Mike, had been so influenced by HRC, where he had been working during the season. (Yes, quite incredible, isn’t it, that a hayseed with no experience and only in town for a couple months could land a gig working at HRC with nothing to offer them but, well, tons of free airtime on an MTV show? But I digress…)
The scenario in question is that Mike’s boyfriend, Tanner, had come out to his parents, who in turn reacted very negatively to the news. You know the story, even if you haven’t watched the show: They want to cut him off…cut off his tuition, take away his truck, etc. “No son of mine,” et. al.
Now, I don’t know this kid Tanner, and I don’t know his parents. But I can imagine they didn’t want their kid to be gay. Frankly, I’d figure that any parents who have an opinion one way or the other on the subject would probably at least generally prefer their kid to be straight. And clearly Tanner’s parents are much more opposed to the idea than, say, mine were. However, I’m not here to defend their opinion of homosexuality, nor to justify their reaction.
What’s striking is Mike’s reaction and his choice of perspective. Now, granted, he’s very emotional, but he can’t help from classifying Tanner’s parents as being full of “hate”. Can we look at that word, “hate“?
The gay Left has an uncanny knack for painting opponents of their agenda as being full of “hate”. But can it be that someone can have a moral objection to something without it being grounded in hate? Is it possible that parents who feel (however misguidedly) that they must straighten out (pun only slightly intended) their kids do so out of a sense of love instead? Again, not to take their side, but why must the gay Left always classify someone who disagrees as not simply wrong but having only hateful motivations? Why must the gay Left attack the person rather than engage what they see as the person’s misguided beliefs? Or is it that to the gay Left, the only source of disagreement must be from sinister feelings within an adversary?
And in a greater sense, we find that it seems easier for the gay Left to demonize their political opponents as having malignant hearts rather than contending arguments. After all, how often do we see anybody who opposes the gay Left dismissed as simply full of “hate”, rather than engaged and questioned about his opinion? How often are those who oppose gay marriage asked simply to defend their position, rather than shouted down as hatemongers? Those who oppose the repeal of Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell aren’t given a hearing by the gay Left borg, but rather are castigated as Cro-Magnon troglodytes who simply “hate” gays.
And they wonder why it’s so hard to get their message through.
…and don’t get me started on the use of the word “ignorant”.
-Nick (ColoradoPatriot, from HQ)
UPDATE (from Dan): Nick, you’re onto something. Once met some evangelical Christians when I was traveling in Northern California. They hosted me in their home and prayed for me, alerted me to places that did conversion therapy, but didn’t force it on me. They were concerned for my soul. May need to blog on that.
Good point about how gay left wishes to dismisses all people critical of gays or any ostensibly pro-gay policy as basing their opinion in hatred. They just assume animosity. And while making that assumption, a prejudiced one if ever there was one, they accuse others of being narrow-minded.