To be with someone who lies so easily its like its second nature is frustrating and heartbreaking. I quite honestly don't believe you can fix someone like that or hope they fix themselves.
Wondering every time they open their mouth if what they are saying is true is exhausting. Did he really go to the doctor on his day off like he said - or did he spend the day off doing "something" else?
how do people get through things like this?
My R is over - I can't be with someone who can look me in the eye and lie like that and do it just to save their own ass or make people leave them in peace.
I don't know how I'm going to trust again - I honestly don't. I applaud everyone that can get past the lies and those who have a spouse that is capable and willing to do the hard work to fix a relationship.