Feb 26 2015
It’s started and now you get inside your bedroom, hotel room, or dark corner. You might start making out, then you feel the other guy getting hard. Now what do you do?
1). Let’s start with kissing. Most guys like it, and it can be a good measure of connection. You might like how their facial hair or lack thereof, feels. You might like the way they taste. What happens when they are not a good kisser, or they specifically mention that they don’t want to do it? We have seen some open relationships that specifically restrict that activity. What happens if they are a bad kisser?
2). Some people go right for the mouth on the cock. You can start by rubbing their cock through the pants, underwear, whatever. That gives you an idea of how ready to go they are and the size of their cock. That’s helpful for a couple of reasons. If they are not as excited as you, you know to take a little more time. See what does make them hard, maybe they want to suck yours first. Not everyone gets hard right away.
The other benefit is that you are not surprised when you see their cock. If it is a little smaller than you thought, you don’t have a chance to go “Is that it?” It is rarely larger than you thought, FYI. Smaller is actually easier for a blow job.
3). It is funny all the things you notice the first time you get your mouth near their cock. Do they shave their pubic hair or nuts? That is close enough to feel stubble. Are they circumcised? We recommend giving their nuts some attention, most guys like that.
4). FYI not everyone likes blowjobs. Like most sex, there are a couple points of view. First, it feels good. Certainly a warm mouth that licks your cock is not an unpleasant experience, (unless they use their teeth). Another turn-on is mental. Some men get off on the site of seeing someone service their cock.
What are some of your tips? What do you like about giving or getting blowjobs?