here is some advice when you got broken up with, got cheated, on, or somebody just plain old broke your heart
1Always think in the positive. There's a reason they didn't make it into your future, and if they hurt you, are they really worth getting back?Ad
2Listen to good breakup songs. (ex: Picture to Burn-Taylor Swift, I Will Survive-Gloria Gaynor)
3Talk to people who can HELP! Talk to friends, family, or even close co-workers. Most have probably gone through the same thing and can help.
4Keep busy. Take your dog for a walk, go see your far away relatives, go take a tour of the White House, go shopping. Do things you love that will keep you busy so you don't have time to think of the person who hurt you.
5Flirt! Flirting and partying are a good way to help you get off your feet, meet some new people, have a good time at the party/club, and getting ready are all fun ways to help keep you distracted.
6Rearrange your furniture! Especially if you had an intimate relationship, rearrange your bedroom. Wash your sheets, get a new couch. You'll be distracted by moving everything, and when its all done, your house will look fresh, and it won't look the same as when the person who hurt you was there.
7Pamper yourself! Go to the spa, indulge in a new Gucci handbag, indulge once or twice to remember you're still important and you don't need a that person, you're doing fine by yourself!Ad
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- It's okay to cry when you're hurt, don't try to hold it back, but don't always be gloomy, try to be up and bubbly and happy
- Don't feel like it's your fault when somebody breaks up with you.It's their loss, not yours.
- Always stay positive, never think about what you did wrong, this about what they did wrong, and that, is hurting you
- Ask friends for advice,
- Don't get into a serious relationship right after you were hurt
- And remember how vulnerable you are right now--don't fall for the same person with a different name.
- Don't eat junk food to help, you might gain weight and that will make you more depressed
- When you don't think about that person for at least three days in a row, then it's probably okay to date again.
Things You'll Need
- a positive attitude
- some good music
- good friends
- energy--so start exercising!
- a sexy new outfit
- eyes wide open!!you're STILL vulnerable, regardless of how you're feeling at the moment.