Men like to think we’re in control, but there are many areas where we are, for lack of a better word, impotent. There’s one in particular (look away shy readers): the genitals. Key difference between guys and girls: you can tell your sex muscles what to do, but we can’t.
Now, there are definitely some similarities when it comes to what both sexes cannot do down there. Just like our baby-makers don’t respond to commands like “Get hard!” yours are similarly unresponsive to imperatives like “Be wet!” And understandably so (who likes being yelled at?). But where women do have control supremacy is in the muscles down there.
Guys can flex until our muscles pop and our penises will not change shape, density, or size. With the smallest of efforts, women can transform their Las Ramblas into a pedestrian-only side street, which can come in very handy.
Here’s the tip part. Not surprisingly, it involves communication. This is more for the ladies who have sex with guys who tend to last (and last and last), but it can come in handy for everyone. When your dude is thrusting away, experiment with different levels of tightness. When you increase the pressure, ask him if he likes it. Use the word “tight.” For some reason, we love that word.
Depending on his reaction, and of course your level of comfort, as he gets closer to the finale, gradually increase the tightness, telling him that you’re doing so. It will encourages him on both a psychological and physical level. And will make him very grateful that control is in your
Does this sound easy or like a lot of work? Does your guy like this kind of encouragement?
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