I've now gotten this for the ... fourth time, explicitly. The people involved were pretty different, the circumstances were pretty different (relationship lengths, circumstances, ages, etc). What is it that motivates this? The common element seems to be me so I'm inclined to say that something I am doing is wrong, but with a vague answer like that, how do I know what to change?
When pressed for a more precise explanation, it defaults onto things like, "you didn't change, I did." Which is fine, but the sample size is growing and suggests that something I am or do is the cause.
Can you give me any insight into how avoid this heartbreakingly painful explanation in the future, R_A? Honestly, I'd rather be dumped in almost any other fashion than this because it leaves no room for ... justification. Like the infinite motions of the planets in the stars randomly aligned and disaligned, and my fate is to a friend to everyone I love.