You know how sometimes there are people around whom you instantly become (or at least feel) more socially backward or awkward? But on no reasonable grounds that you can perceive (not royalty, not star-struck, etc)? As though they exist in a different atmosphere and breathe different air. It’s hard to tell if you’re being judged, but you sort of feel like you are anyway, and regularly wrong-foot conversations, not in a bad way, but just enough to feel like a putz.
Like, connecting in your normal way – or even in a work/businesslike way – is just not possible. Even though at all other times you KNOW you’re actually good company, could talk all day easily and be all the necessary things to be considered normal. What is that?? It doesn’t happen to me that often but when it does, it’s been around Katakan women (some – others are like sisters), Leos, and of course the middle-aged businessman types who either put up judg-y barriers or are actually socially awkward.
Or maybe there is just zero common ground. I have a theory that something in their chart is sitting on my Saturn, which might explain the judgement/awkward/not quite good enough dynamic playing out in my head… Be keen to know your thoughts.
Dear Curious Pisces,
Well I think that peeps who trigger your Saturn are more likely to inspire you to be more fit, organized etc. What you are talking about is Qi. Some people – Qi Vampires whether they know it or not – just drain it. You drift away from the encounter wanting to sleep or shower, feeling a bit greige about life.
Others are inspirational and life enhancing to the point that you and life itself seem more sparkling and vibrant in their presence. They somehow elicit your funniest quips and a beautiful connection. It’s a Qi exchange. So they either drain your Qi, scatter your Qi or up your Qi. And you to them, obviously.
Leos on form are huge Qi-raisers – any successful performer is a master/mistress of Qi -hyping, it’s what they do – only on a grand scale. Dark Sun Leos (with no stage and a kind of black hole ego) turn your light and their own light inside out. Quantum physicists should study them.
What does everyone else think?
Image: JnK 2007