lol i'm not defending these dudes, just seemed tame compared to what they are saying they usually get. just thought it was odd to use this one as the prime example to let people know these dudes are scumbags when, yea its kinda offensive but not over the top disrespectful
True, some of the others they mentioned were a bit more over-the-top. But this is probably pretty representative of most of the messages of this type that they receive. It's casual misogyny, basically. And that's pretty much as terrible on a cultural level
That being said, they may not have really spent much time deciding which specific example to post, and we both are overthinking it.