"The real difference in emotion between the sexes might lie in emotional intelligence rather than feelings of anger, sadness or depression. Scientists consistently find that women possess higher levels of emotional intelligence than men, characterized by a sense of empathy and understanding of others' emotions. In 1995, researchers in Scandinavia discovered that women were better equipped to not only detect, but also mirror, the emotions of others [source: Simon-Thomas]. A similar study in 2003 found that women identified and truly experienced the emotions of others, demonstrating superior levels of empathy to those exhibited by men.
Instead of experiencing the emotions of others, the men in these studies simply recognized these emotions, and then started searching for solutions. The rational parts of their brains trumped emotion, with men switching into problem-solving mode as the women empathized.
This difference in emotional intelligence may actually prove beneficial to mankind. This sense of empathy allows women to fulfill their nurturing roles: The woman acts as a support system to friends and family. The ability to avoid experiencing the emotions of others allows men to focus on the problem at hand, seeking solutions and taking active roles in resolving issues. These differences in how men and women handle emotions can also help you choose the most effective source of help when you have a problem. If you want a sympathetic ear, talk to a female friend. For active solutions, talk to a man, but don't get upset if he appears to downplay how you feel
every study on the subject that you look up will say the same thing.
Women = Emotional
Men = Rational