Ask E. Jean: How long should I wait to sleep with a man? I don't want to give it up too soon, but I don't want him to lose interest.
A: You can sleep with a man as you're being introduced, for all Auntie Eeee cares. It's what you do afterward that seals the deal. If you cling like a needy dingbat, forget it. If you let him know he's a marvel but not the only marvelous thing in your life, he'll desire you even more intensely.
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