Q: Why cant guys (like my husband) be discreet when they check out other womens legs or boobs? Why are they always so obvious, and then deny it if theyre caught? What is going through their minds?
A: I belong to a gender that considers it an accomplishment in restraint when we manage to get through puberty without masturbating in public. Youd be amazed at how much of what were thinking, doing, and looking at that we manage to cover up and be discreet about. Youre just seeing the tip of the iceberg. Be thankful for the many bits youre not catching.
Need help decoding male behavior? Redbook columnist Aaron Traister, who lives in Philadelphia with his wife and two kids, is our resident male who's happy to answer any questions you have about what goes on in the mind of a man.Subscribe via RSS
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