I don't care how much trust you have, crap happens. Individually, I'd like to think I'll never in a million years divorce. Statistics tell me otherwise. If what we all individually thought was true was the reality, the statistics wouldn't be what they are.
I don't plan on ever divorcing if I marry. I won't be unfaithful to my wife. But if people change as they do in time or things go downhill, I want my backside covered. After seeing what happened to my parents' marriage after 25 years of love and trust (mental illness, instability, divorce more or less in process) it's just common sense for me. I hope that doesn't offend anyone I could marry some day, but if it does I just hope she'll be understanding and realize that it's not about a lack of trust in her, but a lack of trust that things will always stay the way they are. Who knows what could happen?
a prenup is the first sign of mistrust.
i am completely against them in marriage.