When you were considering making a big change in your life did you tell people about your plans?
Did most of the people around you support you?
The people who supported you, did they grow inpatient when you didn’t do it fast enough?
Examples would be confiding in people you are unhappy in your marriage, but maybe it took you years until you finally asked for a divorce. Or, talking about starting a business, but not doing it for years. Etc.
Do you wish you had kept your ideas to yourself? Do you wish you had reached out more to people to find supporters? Do the negative voices stick about how your ideas won’t work, or that you never follow through stick with you more than the people who encourage you?