I haven't kept track of who's called me what, but I commend you for not painting everyone with a broad brush (unlike Tonka, who HAS called me a homophobe, but that's only because he sees things in black and white and doesn't understand there are shades of gray. In his mind, anyone who's opposed to gay marriage MUST be a homophobe.)
But I don't even think I'm a bigot. I've got my views and beliefs, just like everyone else. Just because you don't happen to agree with all of them doesn't mean I deserve a negative label.
You want to deny equality under the law based solely on how someone is born. That is bigotry.