So, you like a boy/girl, don't you? Well, you probably don't want that person to think you're weird, right? Here are some tips on how to act around him/her so that doesn't happen. Your crush just might turn into your boyfriend/ girlfriend.
1Speak clearly. If you stumble and stammer, someone will probably figure out that you're nervous because that person there. Your crush might avoid talking to you if he/she sees that you can't talk like a normal person. Talk confidently and make some sense while you're talking.Ad
2Be careful with laughing. Don't laugh too much, and don't laugh if it wasn't funny. If you laugh every thirty seconds of the conversation, you might be overdoing it, but be sure to laugh a little so that your crush understands that you are engaged in the conversation.
3Don't stalk. If you search up his name on the computer every time you go on, someone might wonder why you know so much about him (what number he/she is on a sports team, his/her parents' names, his/her phone number, etc.)
4Make eye contact. Look him in the eye. He might realize you like him if you can't look him in the eye. Try to keep your eyes from glancing nervously from side to side. Look him in the eyes and smile to show you're brave enough to even look at him.
5Communicate. Try to talk when you feel brave enough. Don't start a conversation and then wimp out, like saying, "and then...uh...never mind." Try thinking, "Wow, they're talking to me! Try to be brave!" Also, avoid starting an awkward conversation (something babyish, gross, etc.) so that they do not think that you are a freak.
6Practice talking to your crush. It's better to be prepared! Practice in your head what you would say to them when they ask you something, and always be prepared to give them an answer that is acceptable. Always think before you talk as well, about how it might benefit you or not benefit you in the future.
7Show them you like them. If they know that you like them, and they like you back, then it will be easier to avoid looking stupid in front of them because they like you. Everyone will be friendlier and whatnot. Show them you like them by smiling every once in a while, going to dinner or asking them out.Ad
- Try not to hyperventilate when he comes within a five foot radius of you,like some people do (by name, me).
- Don't act totally crazy, but be yourself. You want your crush to like you for YOU.
- Don't make it obvious. To avoid the embarrassment, try to keep it cool. Laughing at everything he says, especially if it wasn't funny, is a clear sign. Being too giddy defeats the purpose of trying to hide the fact you like him. Be peppy, but don't overdo it.
- Make sure your crush has feelings for you, so that your heart will not end up broken.
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