Do you actually do anything to stop it?
I hear all the time "Oh I dont spank my child because it is abuse"
So if you see me spanking mine, why dont you do anything about it? I bet if i slapped my child across her face you would step in wouldnt you? I think you KNOW its not really abuse, you just dont like it, dont do it, and feel you have to look down on moms who do.