My 3.5 mo EBF son has always been a sort of rough nurser and I think I've allowed bad habits to form and I"m not sure a) why he does them and b)what to do about it.
1. He bites, often multiple times during a nursing session. He does it more on the Left than the Right breast, but does both.
2. He often pulls back or turns his head with the nipple still in his mouth and latched. Often he'll pull to the point of pulling the latch off and then relatch and he'll do this over and over. I try to hold the back of his head so he can't pull back and he can't turn.
3. He latches on and off throughout a session. He has always done this and when he relatches he kind of slurps his way down the nipple, so at first it hurst a lot til he gets deep enough on the nipple. He always latches this way, perhaps because I've been too lazy to work on a better latching technique?
A little background. I'm pretty certain I have OALD and have had oversupply issues in the past. I think this is why he's developed some of these habits and is also why I've let him slide down my nipple and turn and such without discouraging too much because I've felt that he's doing it to cope, but now he's getting bigger and stronger and my supply has balanced out some so I don't know why he's doing it.
He'll do it either side lying or in a cradle hold, so its not just positional. At times it seems like he only really wants to nurse a couple mins and then is off and on because he is full? The behaviors are less likely to happen the longer it has been between nursing sessions. He is also more than happy to go at least 3 hrs between feeds and probably would be ok going longer if I required him to do so. So I'm assuming that between my OALD and his efficiency he gets what he wants in very little time, often under 5 mins. He is also pretty bad about it at night (i nurse him when he wakes side lying in bed.) sometimes I think he just woke for some other reason and didn't actually want to nurse. He'll also do a lot of kicking and flailing during these sessions, and grunting and smacking and slurping (which his daddy loves since it wakes him up.)
I'm getting pretty sore again and the behaviors are getting worse, so I'll take whatever advice people have to offer.