Bhala ileta eya kumama notata ndibachazela izizathu zokuba bandithengele isilwanyana sasekhaya esingufudo
Mama noTata abathandekayo,  Njengoko usazi, bendikhe ndafuna ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya esingufudo kangangexesha elithile ngoku. Ndiye ndacinga nzulu ngalo mbandela ndaza ndenza uphando oluninzi ukuze ndazi ukuba yintoni enokubangelwa yiloo nto. Ndiyazi ukuba ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya kukuzibophelela okukhulu ngoko ke ndibhalela wena ukucacisa isizathu sokuba ndicinga ukuba ufanele undithengele isilwanyana sasekhaya esingufudo nesizathu sokuba ufudo lube sisilwanyana sasekhaya esikhethekileyo.  Ukunyamekela isilwanyana sasekhaya esingufudo kuya kundenza ndizive ndinembopheleleko. Ndiyazi ukuba kuza kufuneka ndiqiniseke ukuba ukhetshe wam wondliwa kakuhle, ugcinwa kubushushu obufanelekileyo, unikwe amathuba okufudumala phantsi kwesibane esifudumeleyo okanye elangeni ukuba kushushu ngokwaneleyo. Ndikulungele ukunika ixesha nokuzinikela okufunekayo ukuze ndinyamekele ufudo lwam. Umnenga uya kuba luxanduva lwam kuphela yaye ndiziva ndikhule ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndizinikele ekunyamekeleni nasekuvuyiseni kwawo.  Njengoko usazi, ndixinezelekile yaye isikolo maxa wambi siye sindikhathaze ngokukhethekileyo. Kuye kwaboniswa ngezifundo ezininzi ukuba izilwanyana zasekhaya zinciphisa ixhala noxinezeleko ebantwini. Ndiqinisekile ukuba ukuba nesikhukukazi kuya kundenza ndingabi namaxhala yaye kuya kundonwabisa. Ngokwahlukileyo koko abantu abaninzi bakukholelwayo, amafudo ayakuthanda ukuphathwa ngesikhumba nangesilevu, yaye ndicinga ukuba kuya kuba mnandi gqitha ukuba ndiphathe amafudo xa ndibuya esikolweni.  Iimfudo ziyakwazi ukuzinyamekela. Xa zinikwa indawo efudumeleyo yokuzifudumeza, amanzi acocekileyo nokutya okuninzi okutsha okufana nedandelion, iklabishi, isaladi kunye nezinye imifuno enamagqabi, ziyakuthanda ukushiywa zizodwa. Njengokuba sihlala e-UK apho amaqondo obushushu ebanda, bekuya kufuneka sithenge itafile yefudo enesiseko esilungileyo, isibane sokutshisa kunye nezikhumba apho ifudo inokuzifihla khona. Sinendawo eninzi yoku kwikhitshi lethu. Xa kushushu, le ntaka inokungena egadini yethu. Itafile yefudo kunye nesibane ziya kubiza malunga ne-£200 kodwa oku kuyinkcitho nje yokuqala. Emva koko, ukugcina ufudo akubizi mali ininzi. Enyanisweni, unokukhetha ukutya kwabo ngaphandle kwentlawulo ngokufuna ukutya endikuvuyelayo ukukwenza xa sihamba neentsapho.  Ngokwahlukileyo koko abantu bakukholelwayo, iinkumba zinokuba nobubele. Njengoko benditshilo ngasentla, ziyakuthanda ukuphathwa kodwa ngaba ubusazi ukuba ziyakwazi ukubabona abanini bazo yaye ezinye ziyakwazi ukusabela xa zibizwa ngamagama azo? Eneneni, uphando lubonise ukuba iinkumba ziyakwazi ukubabona abanini bazo bangaphambili abangazange bababone kangangeminyaka ngoko ke zinobuhlobo yaye zikrelekrele kakhulu. Usenokuba ukhathazwa kukugqunyelelwa kwekati kodwa ndenze uphando oluninzi ngale nto kwaye ngoku ndiyazi kakuhle into emandiyenze. Ukuba sithenga ufudo, luya kudinga ukulala kangangeenyanga ezintathu ukususela ekupheleni kukaSeptemba. Kuya kufuneka silalise isikhumba sethu ebusika kwibhokisi efakelwe kakuhle. Ubushushu abufanelanga budlule okanye bube ngaphantsi kwamaqondo ama-5 ngokukaCelsius yaye igaraji yethu ibiya kuba yindawo egqibeleleyo yoko. Sinezixhobo zokulinganisa ubushushu apho ukuze ndikwazi ukubukela amaqondo obushushu.  Ekugqibeleni, ndiye ndajonga iindleko zokuthenga ufudo. Ndicebisa ukuba sithenge ufudo oluneminyaka embalwa ubudala njengoko lufuna ukhathalelo oluncinci. Sinokuthenga ufudo oluthandwayo olune-microchip malunga ne-£100. Yaye xa sisiya ekhefini, ndiye ndafumana ihotele ebizwa ngokuba yiTurtle Hotel eqhutywa ngugqirha wezilwanyana yaye ixabisa ii-£60 kuphela ukuhlala iintsuku ezili-10.  Ndicinga ukuba uya kuvuma ukuba ndenze uphando olunzulu kakhulu ekunyamekeleni ufudo yaye ndiyathemba ukuba uya kuvuma ukuba ngoku ndikhule ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndinyamekele isilwanyana sasekhaya. Ngokwenene ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya esiyifudo kuya kundenza ndizive ndinembopheleleko yaye kuya kuba nempembelelo entle nethuthuzelayo kum. Eneneni, ndicinga ukuba yonke intsapho iya kukuvuyela ukuba nenkumba. Zizilwanyana ezinobuhlobo, ezinothando, ezinomdla neziziingqondi yaye sonke siya kungenelwa ngokuba nazo.  Ndingakuvuyela ukuba ubuya kuwuqwalasela ngokupheleleyo umyalelo wam.  Uthando oluninzi,  UWilf x